Hey Araine,
Good to see you around again

I'm a little confused about your stress over your boyfriend coming to visit you. I would expect this to be a happy and exciting time for you -- the first time you get to see him in three months! Have you talked to him about all the stress you are having over the relationship? I guess I just dont feel that I can offer any advice, simply because Im having a lot of trouble understanding your anxiety... You've only been apart for three months; personally I dont really see the need to rush concrete plans for your future. Of course, having an end date to distance is always nice, but right now you are both still in the process of re-figuring out your lives apart from each other and what that means about yourselves and your relationship. I also thnk that if you can, you should go ahead with the visit. It will be good for you to sit down and talk to him face to face. Plus, having him come visit well help you determine if your feelings for him are still the same as when you left three months ago.

I hope everything turns out well for you.
Please keep us updated!

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Ro