Hi,
Well I supposedly am an other so I don't know if this will help because I don't think of everyone as an us, but as a family. I think I have less trouble with things because of that. Pammie is 15 and yes I saw she posted here and I am sure she will be around, she used to be such a brat. I just treated her like I would treat anyone else and she is growing up I guess and acting better, she is still immature but a lot has improved. I do have trouble when I think I feel anger because Raven is anger and she kinda pushes me out of the way. Everyone has problems I know. Well, good luck with your "family" and keep posting

Fi