not sure what T wants to do, by the end of session, i'm usually not really capable of asking much of anything. i trust him enough though to go whichever way he does. i just want to be able to talk to him and not "forget" how to speak. i think of us as us. how do you set limits when they dont listen and you are not aware when they come out? i don't want any of them to "go away" they all of good qualities, even the rebellon sometimes is good (and fun). thanks