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Originally Posted by Auroralso
Exactly Tina
I have been brainwashed into beliving others negative opinions projections of me . So much so its like open season.,
And I have a difficult time saying the other one is Off the mark or just wrong in thier undertanding. especially when they proport knowledge and more power in thier understanding . Saying they " know me" . Like they know me better than I know myself. yet another way of beating a person down to lay the ground work for "their" handy work, alll so they can remai in control.
Thats gets easier as I am able to completly separste and not buy in to .
I struggle when I'm buying again . and letting them win.
Patricia
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We can do it together!
It really isn't anyone else's "job" to tell me what is wrong with me. That old adage about the splinter in someone else's eye and the mote in their own is so true. I believe that people get addicted to "projection" the way I get addicted to B&P
My need for love and approval sometimes gives those projectors an "in" to my heart.