No, of course not. If members have mentioned they knew or know of others from other sites, that is of their own doing.
If they wish for others not to see that, then it is up to those people not to post/reply/chat forums telling anyone.
When things are posted, replied or on public chat forums, the screen is seen by anyone that comes here.
I would suggest if anyone does not want anyone to know certain things, they should not write it were it is publicly displayed, no one sees PM's so members have that option. We all have another option, when we come across a post that triggers us, we can click pass, and choose rather to read it or not, helps avoid conflicts.
I think for all of us it is time to move on, rehashing, and brooding over this stuff, isn't doing anyone any good, just going in a stagnate circle, not going forward or supportive to any of us.

Let's have some PEACE.

Best wishes,

DE