When you're depressed, even the most mundane things (like buying a few groceries) becomes a huge, tiring task. It can completely wear you out. Even just thinking can wear you out. I agree that you should hold off on making big decisions right now and focus on getting yourself better. Your daughter's negativity will only enable the depression more, so I hope you won't give in to her words. It's so easy to believe when people start saying bad things to you. But listen to the people here instead, these people care about you. So do I.