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Originally Posted by ThePainNeverDies
How can I deserve nothing bad when i've done so much wrong? Messed up so many peoples' lives?
I say I'm selfish because I only think about myself, I only do things for myself and I do so much wrong and it hurts other people. I was told I'm selfish, even when i did do everything for others, nothign for myself...
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TPND, read your entry that I have quoted up there ^. It isn't logical. You say you are selfish then you say that you do everything for others and nothing for yourself..........
I think some of it has to do with boundary issues. You feel responsible for others and you are not. You think that you mess up other's lives but only they are responsible for their lives.
TPND, why do you give these negative and harmful people access to you! These types of people wouldn't come within any sort of distance of me.
Sounds like you could greatly benefit from some healthy boundaries. Boundaries which would demarcate where you end and others begin so that you can see that you are not responsible for others and boundaries to keep unhealthy people away from you.