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Old Apr 16, 2009, 02:12 PM
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KathyM~ Is there a particular reason you are trying to put words in LionKings mouth? Seriously? You completely missed the entire point of what happened and why it bothered him. For a man, ANY MAN to have the balls to do that in broad day light is what got under his skin, and for everyone out there to just ignore it and not help the VICTIM! Black is descriptive...as if someone were describing me they would say short and fat/plump/overweight whatever. i do not see it as an insult in anyway. It was just helping to tell the story. it is people like YOU that are overly sensitive and that are not comfortable with their own choices that make 'race' an issue. You have no need to feel guilty for falling in love with and marrying a colored man. So don't over react and make it seem like people are still treating you like the 1960's when you wouldn't be allowed in some places because of your choices. Projecting your issues on other does nothing to help the situation. oh and I wanna point out JUST to be clear when LK said "women going back to them" with the context of the story and what is general knowledge about abuse he was obviously saying going back to their ABUSER not a black man..........This is just really frusteraing that someone can come talk because they had a trigger moment and get jumped on by some insecure person trying to find a reason to complain. There are plenty, pick one that is real
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