I guess you need some background on this in order to give me some advice.

To start with I have always been a very quite person and like to keep to myself. My mother never let us out of the house and I always had to beg for days just to go over to my best friends house and was never allowed to go to sleepovers ever!!! I was also molested by the son of a family friend. This has made me even less social. I find myself to scared of being touched by men, I am 23 and have never been kissed. I always say no when asked out and I do not feel safe at all when left alone with a man in public or private.

I cannot talk to people, I can never think of anything to say. I mean if you are done with "how r u?" Any plans for the weekend" then I hit a blank. How am I suppose to start dating if I am to scared of the person and have nothing to say.

I am scared and not socialized at all" Any advice?