Would have to say, what I read on this forum is much more mature and way more helpful

At least an IMO is given a chance before being delete.

I as a poster is considered worth reading, even if that is not what the oringinal poster would like to read.

Here it has been with a much more mature look on lifeSo very happy finding a site that deals with all of our life issues.....whether that might not what would some like see typed & or hear from others.........

I read in that post on the other site, that the young girl was in fact committing a 'Staking attidude' towards her special friend, being a Guy (being the Q was it a male she has a sexually relationship or not, or whether it was one she hoped for????)

So then my comments regards to ' Do not rely upon texting & email being the only way to communicate. Phone them or see them in person was IMO! only going to get results.

And if they failed to respond then that was the answer..........After many many texts.......No answer!!!.............after many emails, still no answer!!!!..................What does that actually mean?

It was the basic Q I asked. IMO! they did not want further contact and if they did not want to phone and actually talk to the person via phone or in person, then what did they expect etc?

At no point did I say she was a stalker, nor did I imply she was silly in her believe that she loved this Guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! beyond all else......Clearly as an older person, probably being older enough to her grandmother....I thought A direct approach eg: speak too them was going too get results....

And if they did not what to go down that road, by talking to them by phone or in person, then why? where they crying about the situation etc....IMO!........