I agree that an invasion of privacy would be enough to make your husband act like that. You know how, you could be perfectly okay with something, but the second it's forced upon you, you will do everything in your power to revolt against it? To him, Im sure it feels like he's 16 again living with his mother. Constantly being questioned when you're not doing anything can be very frustrating, especially if you're married and have a good relationship anyways.

If one email that says "hey" is all you have to go by I would drop it. If he's cheating or straying, you're going to notice more things that just one email. If he's seriously interested in another woman he's going to do things to impress her. So usually the signs of that are changing your wardrobe or grooming yourself more than usual, changing colognes or wearing cologne if he doesn't already. That type of thing. Don't you think that he could snoop through your things and find something that might seem incriminating even though it's not?

I think everyone needs their own space and, if you accuse and accuse, that might cause a "well I'm being blamed for it, I might as well do it" type of attitude. When exes have become too controlling of me in the past, that's what made me start looking (Ive never cheated on a guy, I mean just even checking out other guys).

And insecurity is probably the biggest turn off for a guy. Even a mildly attractive girl can become hot if she carries herself well and has confidence. Just like a super attractive girl can become ugly if she has a bad personality. It works both ways. So, instead of taking the "are you cheating on me?" route, try taking the "what reason do I have to be jealous? I know I'm the best woman for you" route. If he is even thinking of straying from you, showing some confidence and showing that you don't care about this "other woman" would bring him back.

Bottom line....you have to know that you are the ****.