"The harder you fight to hold on to specific assumptions, the more likely there's gold in letting go of them." -- John Seely Brown
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I worked so hard trying to find appropriate one, i hope that works
I know I've also participated in the "bickering", but for now: *neri takes a deep breath... and lets go*

And I promise that for now on, I for my own part will try to maintain peace on the Forums