lynnP ,, The grieving thingy Blows , big time ............
But ya know ,, S I L ,,, may have realized from being in a room with a casket the first time ,,,, that [ albeit her ] she was one too many of those for her life time .
The other place in feelings place , and wanting / wishing to have seen your Brother ,,,,,,,, I will equate it like this ;
Sometimes the photos' and picture in our own minds eye is best .
[ I say that because I could have seen someone , my father , after he passed , but they had done some organ removal for donation ,,,,, His eyes ,,,,, and the Doc told me " Better to remember him whole , not like this " ]
I am Truly Sorrowful for the feelings you have now .
Hope this might have helped a bit .
WMD.
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