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Default Jan 04, 2022 at 04:35 AM
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Hello all. I'm Kay from Croatia. I've been here for months now. Having BIG problems with a parent and a community that turns head on her abuse.
I live with my boyfirend but he's abusive too and isolating as well.
I'm scared and very depressed. I am either alone or with him,and'he's on his phone, antisocial, not interessed,no emotions or empathy.
I would like to go home but I can't bcoz of my mom, she doesn't want to leave me be, she stole my savings, accounts and personal property, threatens me and slanders every day. also she hits me and sometimes she batters me.
I lost the last two of friends mostly because of that.
Boyf.'s family pretends I don't exist and I can't communicate with them.

I don't want to call the police, it doesn't turn out legally right, they don't even enter or write a complaint or a criminal charge.
I am often hungry ,boyfr. blackmales me with food and my mother didn't buy any for months- I am weak and only can buy so much, not enough food or drink to be remotely okay.
I know this is messy and terrible, I would really APPRECIATE some support and advice from people. Thank you.
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Default Jan 04, 2022 at 02:30 PM
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What a heartbreaking situation. I wish I knew what to say that would help. I can't even imagine the pain and distress that you face on a daily basis. Are there any women's shelters where you could go to live and be safe? I don't know much about Croatia.
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Default Jan 04, 2022 at 02:39 PM
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That sounds so tough for you. I would second looking into Yaowen’s suggestion about the shelters. Your boyfriend is as bad for you as your mum, I’m afraid, since he’s abusive.
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Default Jan 06, 2022 at 06:21 PM
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people with mental problems aren't allowed in shelters unfortunately. I'm so angry. even if I were ellegibile, am against repunisihing victims, why would I have to be forced to remove myself while my abusers enjoy the comfort knowing I am somewhere awful and they get not even a hypothetic slap on the wrist?
It's 2022 maybe if some one advised them to get the hell away from me and go to therapy or something. No,I'm the one who should be punished for being robbed,beaten and starved. Great.

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Do you have a friend or family member you could stay with?
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Default Feb 12, 2022 at 05:55 PM
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Some abusers do ''enjoy the comfort'' of knowing the ''scapegoat'' is somewhere ''awful''.... It's sad.


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