[Phoboxyl]

Hey everyone, I want to address a very important topic that is neglected in the psychology community and in the self-help industry. Namely, dating for guys with social phobia. As you probably know, you can be very good looking (such as moi ) and still have marginal or worse success with girls. If you are average looking or ugly your changes just tunneled to China. These problems confront you JUST because your anxiety and abysmal social skills HIDE who you really are from women, keep you locked into weird and pathetic behaviors and attitudes that don't reflect you (i.e. net-surfing all day instead of doing ****), and prevent you from achieving the success in life that you WOULD have if you were healthy!

I know there will be the usual doubters sulking in their own despair, so here's something about myself that hopefully will convince you that I know something about the subject: I'm in my earlier mid-twenties, I am very good looking but not physically built (I don't have a strong man's body yet), I have struggled with severe Social Phobia and other issues since I was 11, and I have so far been with 23 girls, most of whom have been very cute, some cute, a few hot, and a few ugly. I've had four or five short-term relationships (a month to few months) none of which were serious. "Normal" people with much more experience than me usually agree with my dating ideas nowadays, and I have seen that many things I came up with are endorsed by probably the only honest "Game" guru out there - Assanova. He has a great site by the way which you should check out (don't worry, it's not bs manipulation its focused on self-improvement).

Now, I'm not pretending to be some sort of dating guru myself or anything like that - far from it, I'm a learner trying to get better at something I would much rather pick up naturally. However, unfortunately for people like us, we cannot do it naturally because we have an illness that is getting in the way, so we need extra help to be successful. Without this we will be much farther behind than we need to be once we are cured (who knows when!), and we will have missed out on the social skills and knowledge that could help us be more successful while struggling with our problems. To that end, I want to give to other guys what I desperately wanted for myself since high-school: A crash course in how girls think and how to use that to your advantage to get them in bed and make relationships.

I don't promise to fix all of your problems but here is what I can provide:

1. Honest information about how girls really think and feel, and why they act the way they do. Most advice out there is BS, especially from women.

2. An explanation as to what's ****ing up your sex/love life.

3. Help with basic situations such as going on dates and starting relationships. I can't tell you about serious relationship stuff though because I haven't gotten myself, sorry.

Well that's all for now, if you have a question just post it here.