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Old Dec 11, 2013, 09:59 PM
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I have trouble focusing on tasks at work because I have significant fear around my competence, whether I'm smart enough, etc. So when I sit down to try to do something, I'm filled with dread, anxiety, and the urge to escape. This is particularly bad because I work at the computer, so the internet is always there to tempt me. And I can't shut off email or the web because I need them both to do my work.

I have had some success with setting a timer--to help me focus for as little as 10 minutes without diverting. However, this gets tedious after a while.

It would really help to have other suggestions for these procrastinatory impulses.

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Old Dec 14, 2013, 11:35 PM
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I have times like this and have a different levels of success depending on how bad my day is. My thing is certain tasks seem so overwhelming that i find myself just stuck and unfocused. In general I find it helpful to plan my day in the morning- to kind of schedule the order of how i will do things and start with stuff that's less overwhelming and move onto the more complicated right after lunch break when my mind has some time to refresh.

I also frequently tell myself (quite loudly, but in my head) to focus. It's hard but the longer I do it, the better i am at listening to my inner nagging *****.

On really bad days I will take just a couple minutes out for mindful meditation- where I stay in my cube, even looking at my computer- but I focus on my breath and allow my fears to pope in my head, I acknowledge them and how they make me feel, and then I set them aside. It's weird how much this helps me.

Now my problem is I put so much focus into staying focused at work that there is nothing left when I get home.
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