[kaybae218]

my mother has never abused me in any physical way. but verbally and mentally, i know its not on purpose, she doesnt even realize its going on. she favors my brother lets him do anything he wants when he wants. he got arrested a few months ago for breaking and entering an abandoned home and my mom and dad laughed. about a month ago i dyed a little strip under my hair blue for our class color day. now that it is faded out and gross looking people are making fun of me calling me mold head. im embarrassed and want it gone. So i simoly asked my mom if i could dye my hair a lightish brown (naturally blonde) and shes yellign at me. "why didnt you learn your lesson last time you dyed your tips and got your hair cut off" like can a girl not do something so shes not made fun of anymore????????

[kaliope]

i am sorry your mother isnt more understanding. you say it is just a small strip underneath......could you cut it out without it being obvious? i just did a weave in my hair of purple and blonde highlights. it was a mistake to do both at once. the blonde mixed with the purple so now i have purple blue and really faded blue so it looks an ashy grey. im not too worried cause i know the color washes out pretty quickly and i can do it right next time. ive learned to care less what people say or think. they are just being immature.

[housty20]

Originally Posted by kaybae218

my mother has never abused me in any physical way. but verbally and mentally, i know its not on purpose, she doesnt even realize its going on. she favors my brother lets him do anything he wants when he wants. he got arrested a few months ago for breaking and entering an abandoned home and my mom and dad laughed. about a month ago i dyed a little strip under my hair blue for our class color day. now that it is faded out and gross looking people are making fun of me calling me mold head. im embarrassed and want it gone. So i simoly asked my mom if i could dye my hair a lightish brown (naturally blonde) and shes yellign at me. "why didnt you learn your lesson last time you dyed your tips and got your hair cut off" like can a girl not do something so shes not made fun of anymore????????

Awww huny, does your mum know how you feel and that people are laughing at you?? my heart goes out to you and try and not to lisin to other people theyr not worth it , i have 3 sons and always wanted a daughter your mum loves you and i think you need to sit her down and tell her what shes doin to you . all the best huny take care xxx

[Keyslost]

I've been cut down too mom-drinking dad-sober it hurts a lot from family. Most likely those classmates are jealous. They need to cut you down instead of bringing themselves up (it's easier that way for them). Just remember you're awesome just how you are