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Old Mar 01, 2016, 03:06 PM
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I came here in 2014.It's been 3 years and nothing has gotten better.I am reluctant to tell ppl my feelings anymore. They dismiss them. I reached one goal since therapy ended and it doesn't even matter now. i have more problems to worry about like getting a job and keeping it, money and the weight that I gained after therapy in college and my lack of confidence.

I don't have any friends and ever since I lost most of them due to FB I just don't feel motivated to make new friends in real life. I don't know how and don't trust they will last. I don't trust anybody anymore, really.

I don't know if I want to delete my FB or not. Many judge me for having issues with FB and it annoys me.

Also, I don't like being told to go to therapy. It's insulting now. I also dont' like being told by my friends that they aren't professionals. It's insulting. I never woke up wanting to be other people's problems. Professional's or not.

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Old Mar 01, 2016, 10:51 PM
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Hello Kris10022: I'm sorry you are having this difficulty. I've never been on FB. It scares me. I presume there are some good things about it. But all I ever seem to recall hearing about are problems. I do not share my concerns with anyone. My experience has been that they really just don't want to hear it. They have their own problems. As long as I'm willing to pretend everything is fine, everyone else is more than happy to play along. And, oh yes, I've been to see therapists as well. They ranged from mediocre to awful! I guess there are people who have had extremely good experiences with therapists. But I have not. Fortunately, I'm old. So at this point all of this is of less importance than it might be if I were younger. I hope you will be able to find a way to successfully work through your problems & perhaps find some new supportive friends along the way as well.
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