Unsure about having OCD

I started the research on OCD today because a friend of mine was at my house yesterday and made the comment I might have OCD. I brushed it off with a laugh and told this person they were crazy. That I didn't have OCD I'm just %#@&#! about a lot of things. In my research, I haven't really found much that would be parallel to things that I do. Which, some of the things I do are ... I'm very very bad about making sure my towels are folded just right and I get extremly angry at my husband when he folds them and they aren't how I want them, when all he is trying to do is help. I'm very articulate about how the sheets are folded. They have to be totally perfect, no creases, or wrinkles and each end has to match up to the other ends. When I make the bed, I check it over and over again to be absolutly sure there are no wrinkles in the sheets, when deep down I know it doesn't REALLY matter, no one is going to see the sheet under the comforter. If something is hung crooked, it bugs me and I can't let it go, I have to fix it. It will plague me until I fix it.

Now, these are just a few things off the top of my head...

I didn't see things of this nature when I did some of the research on OCD. But now that something has been said about it, its irritating me because now it has me thinking... "do I really have it..." "what if I do..." etc.

I am trying really hard not to actually go have to see someone that can diagnosis me with it. I am not sure I am really to accept that possibilty at this point in time.

So if anyone out there, knows of a website, or something I can read into that might give me more insight, I'd greatly appreciate it.