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Old Nov 18, 2017, 04:54 PM
Who_am_i101 Who_am_i101 is offline
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When I was a teenager, I would always have an attitude with my grandparents. I was very rude to them and I really don't know why. Now, I have a good relationship with my grandparents. But, I still feel extremely guilty for how I acted. It's been noted that I've matured and grown up a lot, and I'm definitely not the person I used to be. How do I get rid of this crippling guilt and allow myself to forgive? I'm also concerned that my old friends who knew me during that time will think I'm a terrible person for how I used to act, since they don't know who I am today.
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Old Nov 19, 2017, 06:27 PM
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If your grandparents forgive you for how you acted, is that enough for you to put it past you? If you've grown as a person, I doubt they would have any harsh feelings towards you. Best of luck!
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Old Nov 29, 2017, 11:03 PM
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Well said Dowdy.
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Old Dec 01, 2017, 05:40 AM
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I agree with Dowdy. You could also apologize to your grandparents to get closure and then put it behind you. Best wishes.
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