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Old Jun 22, 2019, 01:57 PM
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I feel rejected every time I try to have a conversation with woman. Therefore, I feel anxiety. And I can't continue talking to other girls within few days after such a talk.

How could I handle this?

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Old Jun 22, 2019, 02:01 PM
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It's not like I say something bad or inappropriate to her. It's just "hey, what's up?" and I get blacklisted or ignored. Or even if she continues the conversation, she just do it with no interest.

I think I must talk to much more girls to find a good one. But I cant continue doing it because of extreme anxiety.
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Old Jun 22, 2019, 02:26 PM
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I think your experience is quite normal. Many girls or women feel annoyed or bored when a man shows erotic interest, and they only seldomly become interested themselves, and that depends on hormones and their particular taste - and on a certain style on the man's side. It's very complicated.
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Old Jun 22, 2019, 02:56 PM
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Yeah, I know it's quite normal. But I don't feel like I have to go after this feeling and give up. I just need to overcome the anxiety.
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Old Jun 22, 2019, 03:03 PM
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Or probably I feel that I'm better off dead, rather than live with the fact that nobody likes me at all. But, before committing suicide, I decided to talk with 1000 girls before I make the final decision. 997 already.
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Old Jun 22, 2019, 06:17 PM
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Raise that number!
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Old Jun 22, 2019, 06:52 PM
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Raise that number!
You think that I won't find a girlfriend even though I'll talk to 1,000 girls? You make me feel even more depressed ...
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Old Jun 22, 2019, 07:08 PM
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Actually, I have never talked to even one strange girl in my whole life. I have always waited for very clear signals in order to move.
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