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Default Sep 15, 2022 at 03:05 PM
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I am gonna do my best to explain this. I am working with two people who are diagnosed with ADHD, 1 woman and 1 man we have become friends. We wear hanging out the other night and I felt like she was being really flirty with me, I reciprocated a little bit. Now I feel weird and I feel like the “vibe” has changed. I’m interested in her but if she was just feeling a bit horny that night I get that that’s part of ADHD from time to time but I’m feeling like I acted creepily. I don’t know, does anyone have any advice? Did I act badly? Should I try to talk to her about it or just let it go?

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Default Sep 16, 2022 at 09:50 AM
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Try not to overthink it and just let it go, I'd say.
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Default Sep 16, 2022 at 08:27 PM
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Yeah everything seems to be fine now. I was doing what people with anxiety disorders do and catastrophizing.

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Default Sep 16, 2022 at 08:42 PM
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I’m also just lonely and I feel like I’m not the kind of person one falls in love with. When someone gives me attention like that I tend to glom on to them.

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Default Sep 17, 2022 at 07:46 AM
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It's sounds like you have a grip of what's going on. You are self-reflective and that's a good thing; of course, being self-reflective involves some degree of suffering.

I think you have the answers...

Maybe boosting yourself with other interests / people will perhaps help you feel less lonely??
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