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Old Oct 22, 2008, 02:24 PM
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I need another one of me to handle some of this!!! Grrrr! My van broke down yesterday, bank account overdrawn (unauthorized withdrawals), borrowing my mothers car (ohhh the guilt-lecture that came from that!), my ex-fiance is fixing my van, loaned me money, I have three reports I have to have done by Friday afternoon--I was just given them Monday at 4:44--so my boss can present them as her work, I still have the critters in my house, my daughter had to miss karate yesterday and will miss Friday and Saturday, my oldest daughter is upset that I can't take her to a college fair meeting tomorrow night because I have to work late doing these reports plus my mother instructed I can go nowhere at all other than work with her car, I'm too fat, I hurt, I want to comfort-eat but am trying so hard not to. I'm very very stressed. This situation with my daughter not being able to attend this gathering is bothering me. She says she ok with it, but she shouldn't have to be.
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Old Oct 22, 2008, 02:26 PM
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Old Oct 22, 2008, 05:30 PM
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I think you need a break! The world is soooo lucky to have you hun, you work too much (and for other people too! doing work for your boss just to let her pass it off as her own!!!! I hope you get some credit for that by her at least!)
Hope you feel more relaxed soon (sorry if I'm not v.helpful tonight, v.tired)
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Old Oct 22, 2008, 06:14 PM
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Thank you very much. No, it's a pattern with us--the doctors need something done, she doesn't have a clue how to do it, I do it, she takes credit. She knows it bothers me--she makes more than twice as much as me and I do half her work. Blah!!!
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Old Oct 22, 2008, 07:11 PM
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((((((((((((( cantstopcrying )))))))))))))))) I am sorry that you are going through these difficulties, I hope things get better for you soon.
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Old Oct 23, 2008, 07:23 AM
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You need a people-copier, to make more copies of yourself...
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Old Oct 23, 2008, 08:13 AM
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((canstopcrying)))) can your daughter get a ride with a friend so she can go?
remember there is only one of you
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Old Oct 23, 2008, 08:16 AM
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You need a people-copier, to make more copies of yourself...
Ya know, I tried laying on the xerox, but I couldn't curl up small enough and still reach the copy button!! Then they called a repairman in. I don't know why.
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Old Oct 23, 2008, 08:17 AM
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((canstopcrying)))) can your daughter get a ride with a friend so she can go?
remember there is only one of you
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Well the friend she was going to ride with actually wanted to ride with us this time. I don't know. My mom may take her but it comes with a price and I think my "guilt account" is already overdrawn!!!!
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Old Oct 26, 2008, 02:04 AM
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just do what you can. try your best and remember that it is impossible to do everything you want to. your daughter will look up to your courage and strength.
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