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Old Feb 16, 2009, 09:30 PM
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I'm not sure where I fit in and if i will ever fit in. right now the only close friend i have is a drunk...and my bf...I'm not sure if it's worth it anymore...I just want the pain to go away...
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Old Feb 16, 2009, 09:41 PM
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((Myoasis))))))))))))))))) its always worth it. You are worth it. I am sure your b/f thinks you are worth it. You will find your way in time. Take your time with you.
Sometimes it takes time to decide where you fit in.
Remember you are worth it.
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Old Feb 16, 2009, 11:50 PM
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(((((((((((((((( myoasis ))))))))))))))

You are definitely worth it hun, take some time and concentrate on you and who you want to be and then you will find where you fit in.
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Old Feb 17, 2009, 02:58 AM
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I'm not sure where I fit in and if i will ever fit in. right now the only close friend i have is a drunk...and my bf...I'm not sure if it's worth it anymore...I just want the pain to go away...
Yes, you are worth it! Fitting in ... wow, that's a hard one, I don't know where I fit in and I am 41. I have a lot of "friends", but each one is unique in their own way, each one different, and none are really that close. My best friend is my wife, as it should be, and your b/f should be yours, and I agree, he thinks you're worth it!

Take a few deep breaths, you konw who you are, be who you are, and you will find your way. Talk with your b/f about your anxieties and fears and I am sure he will help you.

I hope all goes well!
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Old Feb 17, 2009, 10:46 AM
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((((((((((myoasis))))))))))

I just want to make sure. Is it your friend who is the drunk? Or your bf?

Are these two separate people?

I want to make sure you are safe. Sometimes "drunks" can be abusive. Not always. But I just want to make sure you are safe. Please let us know, ok?

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Old Feb 17, 2009, 11:01 AM
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Myo did something happen recently to make you write this post?
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Old Feb 17, 2009, 11:09 AM
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in time, with help, you can certainly fit in anywhere, myoasis!! you are certainly important to us and we care about you. sometime in the past i would think i was only "worth it" to ppl who really didnt' have the capacity to respect me. since i thought so little of myself i hung with ppl who treated me that way.* (later in therapy i learned i was of value and worth and learned to hang with ppl who really did appreciate me for who i was.) *is this going on with you right now, if you don't mind my asking. you do matter.
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