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So I'm undiagnosed as having adhd, but feel its almost nailed on that this is the reason my head, and in turn life, is so scattered. I did the test on here, both full and short versions, and scored very highly on both.
For as long as I can remember, I've had problems socialising, preferring to work alone. When I was a kid, every school report was the same, very bright, but doesn't apply himself as much as he could. Very rarely did I manage to remember homework, coursework etc. I can't concentrate, I forget appointments (i had an appt for the docs to set the ball rolling on getting diagnosed, but forgot to go!). I have serious issues with timekeeping, with organising anything. I start things, but rarely finish, usually because I'm drawn to starting something else. I constantly say things without thinking, causing arguments which make me feel like crap having regretted what I said almost instantly afterwards. My mind is always on the go, thoughts get scrambled. I start speaking and before I finish the sentence, either get distracted or forget what I was saying! All of this is leaving life between myself and my partner very strained. She's frustrated and angry that I keep forgetting to do things, I'm frustrated and angry that I forgot ![]() If there's anything serious I want to say to her, I've taken to writing/texting it and have her read it rather than try and say it and end up in a muddle. I get the feeling there's only so much more she's willing to put up with me before she leaves me. I've read that unless you're a child climbing the walls, its very hard to get diagnosed with ADD, so I don't really know which way to turn. |
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get another appointment made and stick post-it reminders about the house ... on things you see every day ... the refrigerator, comp monitor, inside of your bedroom door, bathroom cabinet etc. also if you have a calender/appointment reminder on your comp, set it to remind you every time you log on. these are things i have to do, so i know it works. good luck with setting another appointment so you can get a proper diagnosis followed by proper help.
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Does it cost for psych evaluations? I know the initial gp visit is obviously free, but I don't have the money to spend on doctors. I have no idea about this, clearly!!
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My insurance covered the test I took. But I have to ask, will an ADD or ADHD diagnosis change the way she treats you? Even if you get on good meds there will still be some things that are harder for you to accomplish than a person without ADD. She doesn't sound like a very understanding person IMO. In my area you can also walk up to a mental health facility and pay like $30.00 to get tested (if you have insurance). I went to a therapist for my anxiety and was told I exhibit symptoms if ADHD and took a series of tests and passed with flying colors. Also found out my IQ is higher than I thought
![]() I took an IQ test, a multiple choice test specifically for ADD/ADHD symptoms. Then a computer test that tests your reaction time. And a general personality disorder test because some other mental health conditions can aggravate ADHD or even be confused for it in certain circumstances. May u ask your age? It's sad but they'll probably take you more seriously if you're older. |
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I'm 27. She is understanding for the most part, its just sometimes its feels as though she thinks I'm putting it on as an excuse for my screw ups. I know diagnosis/medication won't fix me, it'd just be good to know 100% and at least make a dent in my crazy! Haha
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I know the feeling. Without meds, my mind either goes on overdrive or completely shuts down on me. In the former case, I think and think and think and everything I see, or everything I think, sparks a new thought that takes me miles away from my previous thought. In the latter, I can't think at all, and I may as well be scooping up water with a net. I like to compare it to two fridge magnets, always repelling each other. The more I try to think, the harder it is to focus on what I'm trying to do because I'm ALREADY concentrating on trying to think.
With my medication I'm excellent; I still have all the sharpness of my mind but I can control it. When my mind goes where I will it to, I can score straight A's and tackle almost anything, but without it I can hardly even finish a sentence. As for remembering things, I definitely know what that's like. Especially in the mornings or at night, I have to run on autopilot because I just can't function. If I have to remember something at those times, I put a stickinote on my door or the inside of the front door so I see it before I head out; that's the only way I'll remember. For appointments, set a reminder on your phone or something that'll pop up or ping to remind you. The forgetting is the worst part for me, because the medication doesn't help as much with it as with my concentration, but I've learned to work around it. Good luck with you appointment, and I hope you get the help you need!
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