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Old Jun 21, 2012, 12:24 AM
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I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I love her more than life itself. But for the last 9 months, what I think we've figured out to be Asperger's has been tearing us apart. My comunication troubles with her and her 16yo daughter have been leading to almost daily fights. I just can't bring myself to leave her because I love her so much and I know she feels the same. But the Asperger's makes it so hard for me to do things right... I use to be her dream girl... But now I just feel like I'm never going to be anything but a burden to her... Should I just leave her now and save her the misery? I just love her so much... I don't want to hurt her anymore than I already have...

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Old Jun 21, 2012, 08:58 AM
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Why do you not go to a doctor and figure out what you actually have and how to help yourself get better so you don't have to have such troubles?
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Old Jun 21, 2012, 05:43 PM
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I am going to the doctor's. Tomorrow. But it just my general physican. I have a mental appointment next tuesday. I walked out today and tried to get myself to a hospital, but I just moved and I got lost... And it was 90 degrees out... My girlfriend came and rescued me after my phone died... We're working things out.
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Old Jun 22, 2012, 12:08 PM
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I won't tell you to leave or stay. It is not my place. But I will ask this:

Why do you suspect you have Asperger's? There is more to the condition than communication difficulties.

It sounds like you are having a very difficult time. I hope you can get some help and figure this all out.
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Old Jun 22, 2012, 01:02 PM
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I won't tell you to leave or stay. It is not my place. But I will ask this:

Why do you suspect you have Asperger's? There is more to the condition than communication difficulties.

It sounds like you are having a very difficult time. I hope you can get some help and figure this all out.
There's more to why I think I have Asperger's, thats just most of my dificulties with my girlfriend. We are working things out now, though. I'm going to get help for my depression and self-esteem issues and really try to get better. =)
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