Social services are useless!

Since I cannot work with women any more, I've had a difficult time finding support from another company, to replace the support I previously received via Autism Initiatives. They did find me a few guys several months ago, but they could not give me flexible hours. What I mean by this is, I would set a target for myself, and needed support to attend. However, they claim they didn't get funding to do so. Their hours hereby were set out and unlikely to be changed. So if I required support at a specific time, they could not work around a timetable.

Anyway, I don't pay for support. Social services paid it for years, and I had no major issues with A.I. at all, until the issues I spoke of in my 3274 other threads on here involving a few women that got me into trouble.

First and formost, any support agency I contact will have to talk to a social worker regarding methods of support and how it's paid for, and I already had a social worker. Unfortunately, he is aware I have a court appointed supervisor due to being on three ongoing Community Payback Orders.

The trouble is, I've contacted various companies myself, and even some mental health organizations to not only gain outreach support, but to receive help like emotional therapy. Sadly, this snake in the grass is probably telling ALL of these people in phonecalls that I am a 'danger' to women, because after passing my info onto them, they *NEVER* call me back. They are likely being told the ins and outs of my legal restrictions, thus they are just blanking me.

Also, this rule about not having women is theirs and theirs alone. They claim I agreed not to have female care workers, but that is somewhat untrue. It is them themselves, implying that it is not a good move, due to the fact I have a history of being infatuated with young women. But the problem is that these agencies have a lot more women as their staff, so this is likely why I never get any response after personally ringing up their offices. Once the social worker blabs about me being in jail and tells them about my court sentencing, none of these companies will touch me with a ten-foot pole.

Could I take the matter to court and say they are not helping me, and that the effects are becoming detrimental?

What exactly are your goals and expectations from Support Services/places/personnel?

I think I'm confused....How many agencies have you consulted?

JW,

Chyia

I am confused as well. It sounds like SS has helped a lot in the past and what you might be dealing with now is just consequences for previous actions, not judgement for your mental health.

I think we all need to be pro-active in seeking out the right fit/type of support that will help us to move forward. Sounds like this particular agency is either unable or unwilling to provide the support you need right now. Try not to get bogged down in blame or anger…but research other agencies or support networks that will assist you in moving toward your life goals.

I didn't know this thread had replies until now. My previous thread was deleted or it was moved to a hidden area because I referred to people from another website.

Anyway, apart from the issue with not being allowed support from women, I keep on hearing that they don't have enough funding. In the past, social services paid for my support via Autism Initiatives. That was it. They never really had any dealings with my business thereafter, but the staff would have still monitored everything, per their jobs. Although due to my history of being obsessive over people, they could have been instructed to keep a watchful eye on me. They knew how fixated I'd become on an ex-girlfriend, who I found again. Only, she massively mistreated me and yet I carried on believing she was my girlfriend, when she wasn't.

While they're not exactly coming out and saying it, they're implying I stalked these two ladies. You can read about it in my other threads. Now, I feel like I wasn't stalking anybody.

The higher-ups had them removed from my support rota because they felt jittery because they knew I had a crush on them and then their attitude stunk. When we were still working together, they started to pick on me and shun me. But I was just acting ordinary. It was like they didn't care about me anymore. This made me depressed once they voluntarily removed themselves. Their bosses also initially lied about their status with me (it was written all over their faces) and I'm sure they lied after calling the cops (as there were notable occasions where they set me up).

One time, they pretended they never knew I was arrested, and lied by saying they called the cops because they were "concerned" I'd hurt myself, which is crap. They basically knew I had poor impulse control and if anybody said anything about their decision not to allow me to work with the women again, they could say they 'hadn't decided what to do' and/or just make something up on the fly to say, because I'd have no proof that they were being dishonest. Plus, giving their position as my "carers" and all, they'd have the 'power' and full backing of the legal system too, since autistic people are apparently crazy and liars.

In fact, they also lied to get me to sign away my tenancy over a year ago. The assistant manager told me I had 'rent arrears' and I called the council out of curiosity, shortly AFTER the assistant manager/landlord got me to sign a blank piece of paper with my signature in her office. It wasn't even a document.

Someone at the council claims it was already paid up to January of last year, but they just didn't want me going back there because of my fixation with these two women, and the court didn't want me back there pending the sentencing, so I was bailed to my family's address for months and months, because they kept deferring the outcome for so darn long. They processed me and spat me right out.

Now due to a long break from support (which I had every right to undergo), they are dictating what kind of support I can get since things have changed. So let's just say I asked to work with females (which I won't - oh hell no), do you think they'd actually want to do that? Doubtful. Apart from that, they're aware that I have a court ordered CPO (actually, three concurrent ones), which includes checking in with a supervisor.

I'm really not bothered what anybody says to defend what they did, or whether they may choose to have a go at me over what I did. Those women and that company totally screwed me over. When I contacted them to sincerely apologize for what had happened, the court jailed me over and over again, and I was assaulted in jail once, and I was also attacked in a holding cell at the court. There was even this support worker sending me emails under a pretend name several years ago, yet no matter how many times I cast that up online to look for validation on how I feel about what they did to me, people overlook that. He did it for about 2 years.

I think the social service organization have to do many thing,they should not ignore their liabilities,we are working our sit about asperger syndrome where we guide social service organization.

Social services have to do many things.

I ended up removing myself from Facebook and those acting related websites. Face it; I'm not going to receive help any more, so it's pointless talking about this. Nobody listens much now anyway. I'll just have to accept I'm beat here.

how are things going for you now Peter?

i came across this today and made me think of you. maybe if it relates to you, you could print it out and show it to people who are supose to be helping you.?

https://www.autismspeaks.org/docs/fa...egalSystem.pdf

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I contacted the boss for the social worker I had before, but he hasn't gotten back to me about support yet. Basically, I wonder if I'll EVER have good support again. They complain about the funding so the hours could be 'inflexible' which is pointless, and thy certainly can refuse to let me work with women, because of the stupidity with Autism Initiatives, which I still think was manipulation on their part.

Social services will just assign guys, so they are short staffed. I'm unlikely to be able to do anything with myself without support, but they are not trustworthy.