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What's the plan, Bryony? How are you going to make a better life for yourself?
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I guess the only thing I can do right now is try to push those feelings down n just talk to people I don't know
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Nice to hear that, Bryony.
I've tried to do the same, but it just doesn't feel right to me because it wasn't who I am. I hope you have better luck. |
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I did it ! ! ! ! I walked up to someone and asked him what his name was. This is actually a double breakthrough because men scare me more than women.
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Good morning Dfendr ,
Your struggles must be overwhelming, I won't pretend to completely understand since I'm a bit of an extrovert; however, I've had some life experiences that may be useful in your situation. At 14 I was a migrant worker, a fresh immigrant to the US, working 14 hour days in the hot sun (110-115 degrees daily) picking garlic, tomatoes, grapes, onion, lettuce and other vegetables and fruits. It was a hard life... and it was a meaningless one at that. I felt hopeless, helpless and depressed all the time... it seemed as if my life was an endless disaster, from the day I was born we lived under a violent dictatorship when I was young, so that made things a bit worse. One day, I began to hatch a plan of how I was going to escape my life and it took me three tries and 2 years before I succeeded. It was a plan that i needed (not one I would suggest now since the world has changed since then), and it may also be this that you need, otherwise you'll continue to feel isolated and alone. Starting today, develop a 3-5 point plan (I love plans since they give us hope and direct our otherwise disoriented energy). Your plan could look something like this:
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