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Default Aug 20, 2012 at 06:07 PM
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This all sounds really, really good. I don’t know that I have anything more to offer at this point. Might be best to see what you and the psych folks come up with. If there happens to be a grad student hungry for a research project, that might take care of a good bit of the program development costs, too. Once something is developed I could approach the psych hospitals and support groups here and hopefully find plenty of participants -- and subjects for the research, if anybody is interested.

In addition -- I don't think they would do it for free, but there is a counseling service here who have developed social skills training for adolesents with Asperger's Syndrome. I talked to them about myself several years ago and they would have given me some individual counseling, at a hefty fee. That didn't seem like anything that would help much. But they are connected with a private university and that might be a good connection, too.

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Default Nov 09, 2012 at 10:04 PM
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i'm not sure if you can "get rid of it" or not; but i know there is help out there. my therapist thinks i may may have it, but i have not been officially diagnosed. i go to mental health every week. i see my therapist every tuesday, have anxiety reduction group on mondays, depression and stress group on thursdays, and see my psychiatrist once a month.

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Default Nov 21, 2012 at 09:28 PM
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Wow! That's the way I feel about women, and I'm a man. Everyone thinks I'm gay because of it. Thanks for your post; it's an eye-opener for me.
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Default Nov 22, 2012 at 12:55 PM
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Those books are for BPD, and most of them are vicious hate books.

You can't get rid of AvPD unfortunately. Even if you recovered from it, it's still there. You just learn how to live and survive in a socially accepting way.

I don't know what to suggest to be honest.

What about virtual worlds, like Second Life, PlayStation Home, There.com? I'm not sure if your AvPD would also restrict you from talking to strangers in a virtual world online, but if they don't, or you want to try it out, you can.
How do you figure those are "vicious hate books"? I've read some of those books and I did not get that impression at all.

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I wonder myself sometimes if it is possible to completely get rid of the AVPD symptoms for my self.

All I can say that really started me down the path of managing my huge emotions related to avoiding was DBT skills classes. If you have a therapist ask about the classes and if they are offered in your area.

It gives a lot of insight into how to handle emotions and the way our brains work in response to large emotional experiences that drive our habits and choices. The skills I learned helped alot. But for the skills to work and stick in your mind it does take alot of practice but it is so worth it...

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Default Jul 27, 2013 at 11:09 AM
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No there isn't, that's why it's called a disorder, it's there for the rest of your life and the best you can do is live with it.
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Default Aug 02, 2013 at 10:55 PM
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I seriously doubt it. But I think it can be managed and you learn ways around it, learn to change at least some of your behavior. Do you ever feel any differently, I don't know. Perhaps it's happened before.
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