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View Poll Results: Ever had a relationship?
I've never been in a relationship. 4 33.33%
I've never been in a relationship.
4 33.33%
I have been in a relationship for 0-6 months! 1 8.33%
I have been in a relationship for 0-6 months!
1 8.33%
I have been in a relationship for 6-12 months! 1 8.33%
I have been in a relationship for 6-12 months!
1 8.33%
I have been in a relationship for 1+ years! 5 41.67%
I have been in a relationship for 1+ years!
5 41.67%
I am married! 1 8.33%
I am married!
1 8.33%
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 06:20 PM
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Well, it's straightforward. Have any of you avoidants ever had an intimate relationship? In case you have some other disorder, but felt like doing the poll anyways, please leave a reply on this thread so I can know which one you've chosen!
I myself have never been in a relationship!
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Old Dec 01, 2013, 01:35 PM
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Interesting post! I myself answered 0-6 months, although this was not what I consider a "serious" relationship. It was more having fun while I was working abroad. At the age of 30 and having hade no serious relationship I realize I will be forever alone...but thats just the way it is. How old are you, and what do you think for the future regarding relationships?
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Old Dec 01, 2013, 07:28 PM
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I'm married, but have spent years ending relationships when I couldn't handle getting too close anymore. I spent many years in my marriage trying to push him away until he showed me he wouldn't run away no matter what. I still have fight the urge to run away.
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Old Dec 01, 2013, 11:44 PM
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It depends on what you mean by relationship? I hung out with this guy when I was in high school for a week or so (in the summer) and we were more than friends…does that count? I mean, I don't think it should so I'm going to vote "never been in a relationship".
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