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Grand Magnate
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Nov 21, 2014 at 10:07 AM
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Don't missunderstand me, I'm on the same boat as you. That is, the Titanic.
Anyway, I'd like to know if you ever wonder what suppoused for other people to be in relations with an avoidant. Let's see I want you to go out for a while from you and put in your loved people's shoes. How do you think they feel? How do you think they feel having to deal with an avoidant that basically is scared of living. I'm touching this topic for two reasons: On one hand, I feel like I infected my partner with some kind of sadness. He was a very optimist guy who trust people. Now, he only trusts me. The second reason is that I'm trying to help a guy who is avoidant and I only feel rejection. |
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Location: Arizona
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Nov 21, 2014 at 06:07 PM
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I don't know much about AVpd so I can't be much help to you. I hope that some of the others here understand how you feel and can help you with it.
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Nov 22, 2014 at 02:48 AM
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I would be sad too if my loved one became distance and perhaps wasn't spending as much time with me.
Your partner is missing you  Sorry about the short message. __________________ Diagnosed: AvPD. It’s never alright. It comes and it goes. It’s always around, even when it don’t show. They say it gets better. well I guess that it might. But even when it’s better, it’s never alright. |
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Grand Magnate
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Nov 22, 2014 at 06:50 PM
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