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Default Jul 23, 2015 at 01:46 PM
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That not necesary has to be the future. I know it is difficult to see but there are people out there who are compatible with you. is it easy? Of course, it isn't. In some way, you have to let the other person knows you.
Of course, being an avoidant, you are not going to have many people in your circle but you can make a try and meet a significant other.

Good luck!
Yet you are telling me to not take a risk?
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Default Jul 23, 2015 at 02:27 PM
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Yet you are telling me to not take a risk?
Because I'm a coward. It's very hard for me to give the first step.
I'm saying to the previous poster that it's possible to know a person but I'm not telling him/her to make a falling down without a parachute.
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Default Jul 23, 2015 at 02:45 PM
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Break, it's you and only you who has to consider the level of risk you are ready to take. Always, a little beyond your confort zone, in other way, there is no progress but you have to consider how much you will be able to cope with the consequences without them being a risk for your self-esteem or your recovery.
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Default Aug 14, 2015 at 06:39 AM
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Wow I can relate to that big time
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