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Grand Magnate
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Jun 04, 2015 at 07:27 AM
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My life was and is ruled by fears. It's horrible because it's an irrational fear.
It stops you and avoid you enjoy things in life. If I have to answer my own question, there are so many thing I'm afraid of that I find very hard to choose one. But, I will choose the most important at this moment. I'm afraid of my mind. This part of my mind that says to me that nobody can like me. __________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Jun 04, 2015 at 08:09 AM
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My main fear is losing my daughter, but one that causes me a lot of distress, too is the fear of not having enough money to pay my bills which is a real possibility in the near future.
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Grand Magnate
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Jun 04, 2015 at 08:55 AM
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This is why I hate irrational fears, life is sometimes scary enough to add moré. Sorry, honey! __________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Jun 04, 2015 at 10:13 AM
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Rejection
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Jun 05, 2015 at 07:38 AM
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Being rejected, abandoned, having someone tell me that they hate me and/or want nothing to do with me.... being a burden on someone, not being worth it....
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Jun 05, 2015 at 10:05 PM
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being in elevators with lots of people, being in crowds,
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Jun 06, 2015 at 01:14 AM
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Living my life without ever starting it. I fear getting old and never having experienced the things that most people experience. If I try to act on something I want then I feel ashamed for wanting it, like I don't deserve it or I'm kidding myself for believing in the possibility that I could have it. If I don't go for it I feel incompetent, lame and hopeless.
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Jun 06, 2015 at 01:36 AM
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Being put in a mental hospital....
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Grand Magnate
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Jun 06, 2015 at 10:29 AM
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__________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Jun 06, 2015 at 10:33 AM
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I also dislike these people who talk to you invading your personal space. It seems very agressive. I try to avoid these people a lot. I think they don't do it intentionally but. I can't stand it. __________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Jun 10, 2015 at 06:23 PM
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Hard to list because the list just keeps getting longer, the older I get and the longer my AvPD goes untreated.
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Jul 05, 2015 at 02:08 PM
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As a result of having AvPd and BPD also...I have missed out on a lot of the things that 'normal' people have had in their lives and I'm now to old to ever have them but I'm ok with that now. My biggest fear is looking like a fool in front of others. I have been humiliated so many times in my life, it remains a huge fear for me. I fear that I will have lived from birth to death without ever having experienced real joy.
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Jul 06, 2015 at 09:41 AM
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I wanted to tell you that there is no age to chase your dreams or your goals. Most of people are much more capable of making achievements than they think. I encourage you to never give it up. |
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Jul 06, 2015 at 11:53 AM
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I fear that my financial situation will worsen to the point where I am unable to adequately care for my pets. I fear homelessness or an intolerable living situation will follow...
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Jul 06, 2015 at 07:10 PM
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I have the same fear. I understand. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk __________________ Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin "Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha |
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Jul 07, 2015 at 04:56 AM
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Jul 09, 2015 at 03:42 PM
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I am afraid of rejection, being replaced, being alone in crowds, and being alone in general
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Jul 12, 2015 at 08:08 AM
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a long list....
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Jul 22, 2015 at 01:41 PM
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That I'll be alone forever..
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Grand Magnate
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Jul 23, 2015 at 09:16 AM
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Of course, being an avoidant, you are not going to have many people in your circle but you can make a try and meet a significant other. Good luck! |
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