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Jun 04, 2015, 07:27 AM
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My life was and is ruled by fears. It's horrible because it's an irrational fear.
It stops you and avoid you enjoy things in life. If I have to answer my own question, there are so many thing I'm afraid of that I find very hard to choose one. But, I will choose the most important at this moment. I'm afraid of my mind. This part of my mind that says to me that nobody can like me.
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
 Anonymous37868, aribugg, Bill3, gayleggg, llleeelllaaannneee, newday2020
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#2
Jun 04, 2015, 08:09 AM
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My main fear is losing my daughter, but one that causes me a lot of distress, too is the fear of not having enough money to pay my bills which is a real possibility in the near future.
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Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin "Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha  |
| Anonymous37868, AzulOscuro, llleeelllaaannneee
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#3
Jun 04, 2015, 08:55 AM
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This is why I hate irrational fears, life is sometimes scary enough to add moré. Sorry, honey!
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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#4
Jun 04, 2015, 10:13 AM
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Rejection
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| aribugg, AzulOscuro, Snips2314
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#5
Jun 05, 2015, 07:38 AM
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Being rejected, abandoned, having someone tell me that they hate me and/or want nothing to do with me.... being a burden on someone, not being worth it....
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"The time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of many things. Of shoes, of ships, of sealing wax, of cabbages, of kings! Of why the sea is boiling hot, of whether pigs have wings..." "I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am. |
| AzulOscuro, Snips2314
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#6
Jun 05, 2015, 10:05 PM
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being in elevators with lots of people, being in crowds,
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#7
Jun 06, 2015, 01:14 AM
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Living my life without ever starting it. I fear getting old and never having experienced the things that most people experience. If I try to act on something I want then I feel ashamed for wanting it, like I don't deserve it or I'm kidding myself for believing in the possibility that I could have it. If I don't go for it I feel incompetent, lame and hopeless.
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| AzulOscuro, Onward2wards
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#8
Jun 06, 2015, 01:36 AM
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Being put in a mental hospital....
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Lindsey “Even on my weakest days I get a little bit stronger” - Sarah Evans Wise words I am trying to learn to live by and will slowly learn to believe as I heal...... “The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.” - Steve Maraboli |
| Anonymous37868, aribugg, AzulOscuro
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Jun 06, 2015, 10:29 AM
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Jun 06, 2015, 10:33 AM
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I also dislike these people who talk to you invading your personal space. It seems very agressive. I try to avoid these people a lot. I think they don't do it intentionally but. I can't stand it.
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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#11
Jun 10, 2015, 06:23 PM
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Hard to list because the list just keeps getting longer, the older I get and the longer my AvPD goes untreated.
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| Anonymous37868, aribugg, AzulOscuro, Snips2314
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#12
Jul 05, 2015, 02:08 PM
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As a result of having AvPd and BPD also...I have missed out on a lot of the things that 'normal' people have had in their lives and I'm now to old to ever have them but I'm ok with that now. My biggest fear is looking like a fool in front of others. I have been humiliated so many times in my life, it remains a huge fear for me. I fear that I will have lived from birth to death without ever having experienced real joy.
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| Anonymous37868, aribugg, maruf
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#13
Jul 06, 2015, 09:41 AM
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I wanted to tell you that there is no age to chase your dreams or your goals. Most of people are much more capable of making achievements than they think. I encourage you to never give it up. |
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#14
Jul 06, 2015, 11:53 AM
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I fear that my financial situation will worsen to the point where I am unable to adequately care for my pets. I fear homelessness or an intolerable living situation will follow...
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| Anonymous37868
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Jul 06, 2015, 07:10 PM
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I have the same fear. I understand. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk
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Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin "Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha |
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Jul 07, 2015, 04:56 AM
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Gracais Azul. |
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#17
Jul 09, 2015, 03:42 PM
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I am afraid of rejection, being replaced, being alone in crowds, and being alone in general
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Jul 12, 2015, 08:08 AM
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a long list....
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Jul 22, 2015, 01:41 PM
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That I'll be alone forever..
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| Anonymous37868, maruf
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Jul 23, 2015, 09:16 AM
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Of course, being an avoidant, you are not going to have many people in your circle but you can make a try and meet a significant other. Good luck! |
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Jul 23, 2015, 01:46 PM
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Jul 23, 2015, 02:27 PM
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I'm saying to the previous poster that it's possible to know a person but I'm not telling him/her to make a falling down without a parachute. |
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Jul 23, 2015, 02:45 PM
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Break, it's you and only you who has to consider the level of risk you are ready to take. Always, a little beyond your confort zone, in other way, there is no progress but you have to consider how much you will be able to cope with the consequences without them being a risk for your self-esteem or your recovery.
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Jul 24, 2015, 10:49 PM
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Getting lost
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#25
Aug 14, 2015, 06:39 AM
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Wow I can relate to that big time
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