[mulan]

The closest I feel someone is getting to me the more I want to run away.
At first I act normally, when I don't know the person. When I feel I might be included I avoid them.

[Yzen]

It must be conflicting to feel closeness and want to run away from it. The need to run away must be stronger.

[mulan]

Originally Posted by Yzen

It must be conflicting to feel closeness and want to run away from it. The need to run away must be stronger.

Scary is the right word. Closeness is suplanted by indiference or fear.

[Yzen]

I wonder if fear gives us a reason to be indifferent. It gives permission to be indifferent. They are tied together in that way.

[mulan]

Fear is tied with some not very obvious feelings... Indifference probably...in my case? Is hard to tell.

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by mulan

The closest I feel someone is getting to me the more I want to run away.
At first I act normally, when I don't know the person. When I feel I might be included I avoid them.

That's probably something you should tell your doctor about. You might need to do a course on Valium until you feel comfortable.

Results vary of course.

[moonperson]

Originally Posted by mulan

Scary is the right word. Closeness is suplanted by indiference or fear.

but do you want that closeness?