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Default Nov 09, 2015 at 12:39 PM
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I'm trying to shower twice a week and having some success with it. I showered this morning, but for a sad reason. I took my cat to the vet and he had to be put down.
I am so sorry for the loss of your cat
 

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Default Nov 09, 2015 at 09:21 PM
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I'm trying to shower twice a week and having some success with it. I showered this morning, but for a sad reason. I took my cat to the vet and he had to be put down.
I am so sorry for your loss
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I'm trying to shower twice a week and having some success with it. I showered this morning, but for a sad reason. I took my cat to the vet and he had to be put down.
I'm so sorry to hear this, Bard... it's so painful to lose pets. They are like children.

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Default Nov 10, 2015 at 01:42 PM
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That's how I felt yesterday too. It's amazing how much effort showering takes when depression rules your life.
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Default Nov 12, 2015 at 11:20 AM
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I know what you mean, astrongbipolargirl. And not showering can be a hard habit to break even when you come out of depression. I have to go grocery shopping today, so I will be showering. That's progress, because when I was really depressed I would actually go without showering.

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This is silly small success, but honestly this was not easy for me. I wanted to sleep all day. I only went from my pajamas to my robe, but at least I did take a shower!
Congratulations are in order because I KNOW how difficult it seems to take a shower when you are severely depressed. I have spent many month going 6 days in between showers. Even then I only showered because my hair was so full of grease and my face felt like it was covered in an oily film.

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Default Nov 18, 2015 at 05:59 AM
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yay I can so relate to that! well done!
I congratulate myself when I am able to brush my teeth some days.
it seems so ridiculous I know but it truly is an achievement xx
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When depressed, taking a shower is a huge accomplishment!! Good for you!! I brushed my teeth yesterday and took a bath today...I am so proud of myself and I am even thinking of making a to do list to stay on track with my hygiene. I can't believe I even wrote that...I remember 10 years ago when I used to wash my hair and blow dry it every day, brush my teeth every day and even wear make up everyday... I miss the old me. Trying not to dwell on the state I am in. I'm trying to do what I can instead of resorting to stay in bed all day. It is a struggle though.

Ugh I made a to do list about 4 years ago, stuff like brush teeth, take shower and put it on my wall. A guy I was seeing saw it and I didn't even know how to explain why I had to remind myself to do these things, it was embarrassing

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Default Mar 06, 2016 at 11:39 AM
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And I too love showers but don't always take one. I do wash my hair though in the tub every day because I have short hair that sticks up everywhere in the morning and I walk my daughter to and from school every day so I can't stay looking like a complete slob. I would though if I could get away with it

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well done you! baby steps - it feels great to have that shower!!
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Need to shower today and wash hair so I can roll out of bed and go to church tomorrow.

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Took one today so I could go to a meeting. It wasn't bad.

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Default Apr 09, 2016 at 04:31 AM
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Where did all the showers go.... Years ago I had no prob ever showering, shaving, exfoliating, hair treatments, products, lotions, make up, dressed, put together... Daily sometimes twice a day! and in an hr or less I was out the door looking amazing.... Somewhere all that functionality got lost. Partly gradual and not abnormal as I got older, lifestyle changes, less superficial more relaxed work environment, etc... But the Showers??!! Can't remember now exactly when but literally it was like the part of my mind that deals with showers just shutdown or walked away... been yrs now and even in best stable mindful times and even when hypo... I have to drag myself kicking and screaming into the shower I generally like the shower when I'm in it but still forget all the extras... I might spend time letting the water run over me but strictly basics shampoo, soap, done. It's just confusing and upsetting. FML
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Default Apr 09, 2016 at 05:51 PM
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I've have come to realize that after 65, some people keep grooming themselves as usual, if not more. Others get depressed and look for an excuse to become skippers. I belong to the latter. Aquagenic urticaria maybe?. Taking a shower is so nice, and so hard now.
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This is silly small success, but honestly this was not easy for me. I wanted to sleep all day. I only went from my pajamas to my robe, but at least I did take a shower!
As someone who has been hiding their greasy hair for the last eight days, and just finally took a shower today, I congratulate you. Most people don't understand how hard it can be to shower, but I do. Legitimate kudos.
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Default Apr 10, 2016 at 06:34 PM
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Just took one after several days. Have been really sick, but that is no excuse.

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Just took one after several days. Have been really sick, but that is no excuse.
Yay, good on you. Yay!!!

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Went in the pool AND took a real shower afterwards.!!!.

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Default Apr 13, 2016 at 06:35 PM
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I shower everyday now (sometimes miss a day over the weekend but..). I totally get when someone says they can't even shower. When I was in that place it was a major accomplishment. And always was helpful and felt so good when I did. Lol, basically I showered more in the past week than I did in the month of December. It's not funny, it shows I'm doing so much better though. I hope I never have depression like that again, it was the worst experience of my life.
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