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Default May 03, 2024 at 04:03 PM
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Someone just sent me a reasonable message that I so wanted to argue against for the sake of it, but I just responded “ok”

Maybe tomorrow I’ll go visit a buddy of mine and see if I can hold my tongue when I don’t have that extra time to think before reacting.

The five second “am I going to regret this later?” Test question. Working miracles for me since I implemented it at 4am this morning.

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Default May 03, 2024 at 06:44 PM
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Yeah i write a lot of posts then dont post them.

I read once, you dont HAVE to express EVERY thought that passes thru your mind!
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Default May 03, 2024 at 07:24 PM
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Thats a great idea!!
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Default May 04, 2024 at 01:35 PM
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Still no fights! I swear, this idea I've never learned or even be led to in therapy of "just stop and take five seconds to ask if this is something you'll regret later" and learning the f-its won't last forever works. Life-altering.

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