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Apr 20, 2010, 08:57 AM
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Alright yesterday was a perfect day. I don't have many of those so I guess I should be happy. My wife's friend lost her job however and we took time to make her a little happier. Then this morning she says she going to go to a career expo and help her friend look for a job. I can't find any evidence of this online, but that doesn't mean she isn't going to one. Now I've been calling and calling, but there is no response I even tried calling her friend and nothing. I'm getting anxious and I can't find any evidence to discredit her claims but I did send a text message asking for literature on it. As I have said before there is no response. If the were at a career expo maybe they wouldn't want to answer their phones, but I'm still anxious. Have to see the Psychiatrist in an hour and I don't want him to see me flipping out. Maybe it would be better than flipping on her.
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#2
Apr 20, 2010, 09:26 AM
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Why don't you trust what you wife told you she is doing? Do you always check up on her like that?
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#3
Apr 20, 2010, 11:28 AM
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Cause its only been two months. Turns out I'm freaking cause I freak. I should have trusted her today, she returned with plenty of evidence of her location like I requested. She went to a staffing agency.
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#4
Apr 20, 2010, 11:44 AM
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From the movie The Hours: "If I were thinking clearly, Leonard, I would tell you that I wrestle alone in the dark, in the deep dark, and that only I can know. Only I can understand my condition. You live with the threat, you tell me you live with the threat of my extinction. Leonard, I live with it too." My blog, "Life and Other Annoyances": http://jennikj.blogspot.com/  |
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#5
Apr 20, 2010, 06:10 PM
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She was unfaithful.
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#6
Apr 20, 2010, 06:25 PM
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(((((((Meape))))))))))
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#7
Apr 20, 2010, 11:03 PM
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I'm sorry; that must be really hard. I hope that you will be able to trust her again and move forward. Have you considered a marriage therapist? Just a thought...good luck with everything!!
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From the movie The Hours: "If I were thinking clearly, Leonard, I would tell you that I wrestle alone in the dark, in the deep dark, and that only I can know. Only I can understand my condition. You live with the threat, you tell me you live with the threat of my extinction. Leonard, I live with it too." My blog, "Life and Other Annoyances": http://jennikj.blogspot.com/ |
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Apr 21, 2010, 08:20 AM
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Thought I should give you an update. Last night when I got home from work we had a loooooooooooooong talk. She cried and told me things that hurt a little, but I needed to hear. I told her things too. After all of that we got a little bit closer. Finally made love. We still hurt, but after last night we both agree that we've got a real shot at making things work.
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