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Old Aug 12, 2011, 05:38 PM
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Hey Guys Im having a rough day and cant stop crying, is there anyone who can give me a hug?

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Old Aug 12, 2011, 05:40 PM
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Hey Feelinghopeful,

You ok? ((((hugs)))
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 05:51 PM
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No, not ok, I think the friend ive been telling everyone about is seeing someone else........
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 05:55 PM
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No, not ok, I think the friend ive been telling everyone about is seeing someone else........

I am so sorry to hear this FeelingHopeful. Are you sure, or do you have the evidence so to speak?

Either way, it's a rotten thing to have to go through.

I am so sorry you have to go through something like this. ((((HUGS))))
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 06:18 PM
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 06:19 PM
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 06:25 PM
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Im not sure, its a long story with us , i thought or hoped something would happen, he has something going on he can't talk to me about, regarding his issues, wants to tell me but can't and doesnt know why, he said he wished with all his heart he could tell me, he feels like in order for a relationship to work, he has to tell the person and since he can't tell me, do you think if he is seeing someone , its because of this? His last gf he told me he was seeing to see if he can talk about it, I feel so selfish,,,, i want what helps him, but my heart is hurting so bad! please any advice, you guys are so awesome on here
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 06:33 PM
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 06:39 PM
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i think all you can do is let him know that you are there for him if he is comfortable talking to you. and then be there for him. you cant pressure him to talk to you because if he isnt ready that would only be detrimental to your relationship. you have to let him build up his trust in you.
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 06:42 PM
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 06:46 PM
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thanks guys, kaliope your right im trying to do that,,, and agree,, im not sure hes seeing someone seriously, might be just afew dates, but agree being there for him is something ive been doing and will continue to do, just the image of him dating is soooo hard, my heart is aching, trying to do something to keep my mind off stuff, but the tears keep coming!
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 06:52 PM
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(((((((((((feelinghopeful))))))))))

Hope you start feeling better.
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 07:13 PM
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the thing is i know he needs someone to accept him for what hes dealing with and i dont understand the person who loves you accepts you and has for the last ten yrs is right in front of you, whatever he is struggling with to tell me doesnt change that.........
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Old Aug 12, 2011, 09:02 PM
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FeelingHopeful, I think kaliope said it best.

lots of (((((HUGS)))))
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Old Aug 13, 2011, 06:14 PM
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Thank you Phoenix and everyone........Having a rough 24 hrs and you guys are the best, wouldnt know what to do without your words and this site.
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Old Aug 15, 2011, 03:26 AM
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Old Aug 15, 2011, 01:38 PM
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black pup thank you so much!! I hope so too i miss him alot big hugs black pup!
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