What a stressful day.

I went to get my mail, to get my child tax cheque, which I really need right now. It was not there. There was a letter there instead, from the province regarding my disability, saying that my disability is being held. It says I failed to add a spouse to my file and will be held until a decision is made about my eligibility can be determined once documentation is reviewed.

All I did was go to the office to inquire if at one point in my future it would even be possible for my bf and I to live under the same roof. So that I would know how to plan my future accordingly. The receptionist told me it would not be possible and that was that. Or so I thought. I cannot believe this.

I called the numbers I was told to call, I got the run around from one and the other hasn't responded back yet. And I am freaking out, I know I should just breathe and believe all will be ok, but I cannot calm down.

Child tax is very rarely ever late either, I am so confused.

Seems like when things start to get good there is always something to come along and derail you. How pessimistic of me.

[BuggsBunny]

It does seem that way, doesn't it? Hang in there! The tax check is probably going to be there tomorrow. I can't speak to disability, tho, as here it would be a mess up, too. Congrats on your recent marriage, tho

[Confusedinomicon]

I don't think Anika is married, though? I think she was just asking about her boyfriend living with her. They probably got confused and thought you were getting married and should have contacted you before with-holding the check.

Hang in there, things will work out.<3

[BuggsBunny]

Congrats on your recent marriage, tho

Confucius say, no make joke on bipolar forum....

[Confusedinomicon]

-__-;;

I admit, I was unsuccessful in reading the tone of your statement. It just shows that its easy to misread things. :P:P:P

(Sorry for derailing)

Haha ok thank you both, I feel better now.

Thanks on the congrats, that was cute.

I know they are worried about people pulling the wool over them, but still, seems a little dramatic. I feel like I should invite them over for tea and scones, and then take them a tour of my bedroom. I hope that's not the kind of documentaion they have in mind.

I was just hoping for some peaceful days ahead. This too shall pass, and then be forgotten. I really need to learn how to just breath, I already gave myself a bad headache.

[Secretum]

((Anika)) I'm sorry about the stress. Governmental agencies can be really heartless.

[~Christina]

Im so sorry about this whole mess ((((((( Hugs ))))))
Try and relax ...

[moremi]

Im so sorry you had a bad day. Hope you are feeling better.

[grandmaof3]

Sorry to hear about your troubles. It must be really frustrating. ((hugs))

[AniManiac]

My brother once had tax problems dealing with my mother's estate because for some reason, they had them down as married! Now if that's not bizarre, I don't know what is!

Weird stuff like that happens. Hope this got worked out...

[nacht]

Bureaucracy is just... ugh. I was initially denied for county services because of my postal code, and they refused to look into the matter - I had to go print out the property tax rolls myself to prove I lived in the county (my zip code is the next county over but there is dual jurisdiction where I live).

So sorry you're going through this. I'm sure it'll be sorted soon.