[allme]

So I usually only come here when feeling bad but have decided to pop in and say hello when things may be on the up

I posted a month or so ago about being lonely and how I felt I had no friends. Well I have 3 friends and have decided instead of feeling bad about what I don't have, to feel good about what I do have and concentrate on the friends I have. Having limited friends means I have all the more time to make the friendships stronger.

I was also down because I never got out of the house and had no job....well I have decided to volunteer at a charity shop and start tomorrow. I figured that I may aswell get out there anyway possible until some paid work comes up and in the meantime I can help out a charity

I am still struggling with my feelings towards ex t and the whole erotic transference thing but hey, one thing at a time!

Instead of moping I am now acting and it feels great. Can't wait to get out tomorrow and see the world again, it's been too long! Ooh and I start salsa lessons next week with one of my 3 friends lol Also, by getting out like this, I am bound to meet new ppl!! It's a win win situation!

Love to you all.

How are you?

[hamster-bamster]

That is great to hear! I was not there when you posted the "moping" posts but that is OK (can you provide a link to it though?), from this post alone it is clear how much ground you have covered. Salsa must be so much fun! And I do not think of three friends as "few" - I think that if you count friendships as "deep" friendships rather than shallow superficial relationships, then three is quite all right. Should keep your hands full.

[Alionka]

Bravo for you, Allme!!!!!