[manic most days]

OMFG!!!! I had one friend, THAT IS IT!!!!! She has a boyfriend whom I KNOW is most definetly bipolar or schizophrenic. He believes she is a prostitute, *****, liar theif everything bad under the sun. Anyways, so recently everything really really blew up with them, they split up and she almost got a restraining order. I spent most evenings over with her after work as she has 2 babies under 2 plus a 10 year old. I talked to her over and over again about how I think maybe she should not consider them being completely over as I can tell she loves him and they have a family.. I told her that she should put a condition on him coming home and that is for him to go get some mental health treatment. I even worried about him and asked her if I could reach out to him as honestly it was sad, I knew what he was going through in a way, he has family that says mean mean stuff, and he's chased all his own friends off with his crazy crap talking. He swears he's heard his gf having sex in the other room (auditory hallucinations) he records her and even tho it is just static, it is her having sex.
Well first it was my 14 year old that she was having sex with, which is when I confronted him about possibly having a mental illness, that it is not all a bad thing, pointed out good things about it, offered to take him etc. (This is before this break up) Well she got lonely, tired, etc. that a person gets with a break up and 2 babies under 2. So she lets him back in and OMFG now this son of a ***** has gone and said that I am sleeping with some guy that I hardly know AND that his gf and I are sexual. I've frackin HAD IT!!! The one person that stuck up for him and now he is going to talk crap about MY FAMILY ohhhh I am so pissed..
Honestly, I should be more pissed at myself than anyone else! He has NO PROBLEM telling everyone under the sun about his hallucinations about the mother to his children and I'm talking crap like children services crap, telling people shes sleeping with people in front of the kids etc. BUT I'll be damned if he is going to bring my family into any of his delusions.
Why the hell do I have this desire to try to help people, when clearly they are unhelpable?!?!! So as I no longer accept or want this jerk in my life I've lost the one friend that I did have to vent too It's almost scary to me considering her well being as well.

[Victoria'smom]

Please, please help her get out of this situation. The safety and well being of herself and her children are at risk. I've seen these situations (2) escalate to someone in ICU because of hallucinations and delusions. Are you guys not on speaking terms? He doesn't deserve your help but get your friend the help she needs. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.