[jezzdobbel8610]

How many of you feel judged for everything? and how do you deal with it? I feel like people are always judging me for everything, I worry so much that people are judging me for my actions, my clothes, my appearance, my dog's behaviours, my driving, my choices for anything, I feel like if I make the wrong choice or do something wrong someone will be angry at me or upset at me. I know I'm not alone in feeling this way but how do you deal with it?

[Clinte89]

Well the way I have come to terms with feeling this was is realizing there are not good or bad choices just opportunities to excel. Don't worry to much what other people say or think just live your life your gonna piss of some people it's bound to happen but that's no excuse to not do what you think is best.

[faerie_moon_x]

Yeah, I feel like that a lot. I think we live in a judgemental society so it's a paranoia that forms out of it. I mean even if a celebrity runs to the store in their sweat pants they get made fun of. It's understandable to feel paranoid about it sometimes.

I think we have to learn to stop judging ourselves. Once we do that and live by our deepest principles, we no longer let others' judgments affect us strongly, and we have, consequently, no desire to judge others.

It's best never to judge ourselves; we should just evaluate who we are but not place judgments on that evaluation. The judgmental view is that everything is either good or bad (in the negative) and it just simply isn't true in life.

Proper evaluation resembles shades of gray more than it does black or white.
Besides, when people are judgmental, they are revealing more of themselves than the person whom they're judging! (One is inclined to think in a situation like that, "so that's what's wrong with you, huh, since you are so inclined to judge others that way?")

It's living by our deepest principles that helps to free us from many things, in my view.