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Old Dec 24, 2012, 10:40 AM
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I'm 15 and my Bipolar brother is 22. He went into hospital because of it a while ago and is doing so much better now I really don't want to jinx it. But...
I really want to understand. We're really close and I'd like him to think we can still talk about anything, although whenever a friend or relative brings up his illness he gets really embarrassed. I asked my mum and all she could say was that he 'went through a tough time'. I don't want to pressure him, but I feel he's getting distant from me and I don't want that. What should I do? Also, he lives in England while I live in Scotland and we don't see each other very often anymore.
Thanks for reading, an opinions are appreciated. I hope this is in the right place.
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Old Dec 24, 2012, 11:41 PM
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I'm sorry I have no opinions but just wanted to send big virtual hugs ur way.
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Old Dec 25, 2012, 01:12 PM
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Let him approach you when he feel comfortable enough to talk about it. If you try and push the issue he's liable to get angry and distance himself from you.

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Old Dec 25, 2012, 01:26 PM
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Hey there,

Wow you are a good sibling. I myself have 2 siblings me being the only one who has Bipolar. I find it very hard to talk openly to them. You can read info online if you want to try a general knowledge, then talk to your Brother about something you have read. How about setting a night aside and skyping him? Maybe see if you can pop down to see him for holiday's? Do you think your Brother would be ok with that?
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Old Dec 25, 2012, 03:08 PM
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Just let him know... you love him and will always be there for him.
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Old Dec 25, 2012, 04:22 PM
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Thanks for the advice everyone, I really appreciate it.
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