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Default Jan 04, 2013 at 12:36 PM
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I don't know how?

...truth is there is no "technique"

is there one?....NOPE!...

it's just a damn instinct and a really damn annoying one to...

anyone ill with this crazy stuff would understand ...!!

how it comes and goes and not just gentle like brutal more like it!

to fall in a heap...collapse give up be a pathetic singular human mess!

...and then go manic upbeat as if??

nuthin' happened!....

RIGHT!??

but I sure feel damaged and this has gone on for years

and I still care
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Default Jan 04, 2013 at 12:43 PM
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Humans are social animals. We are meant to live in small tribes. "Caring" is a survival thing. You have to be able to care about the other members of your tribe or it won't function. Sure, that can be broken down over time with arguments, abuses, personality conflicts, or whatever. But, as a human we then seek out a new "tribe."

Being outcasted is a major issue for us, it drills into the very inner workings of our caveman brain. People without a tribe fall apart pretty fast.

It's like elephants. Outcasted elephants die of loneliness. Baby elephants will die if they are not loved. Humans are the same. You can feed and clothe a baby, but if you don't love it, hug it, play, talk with the baby... the baby will get sick and die. So, caring is important human nature.

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Default Jan 04, 2013 at 12:44 PM
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I feel ya monkey. I think it is in peoples nature to care. Its just how it goes.

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Default Jan 04, 2013 at 12:49 PM
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I feel ya monkey. I think it is in peoples nature to care. Its just how it goes.
I reckon you be right
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Default Jan 04, 2013 at 01:17 PM
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i believe your right to.

i know its true but it kills me to hear people get sick and die from uncaring and/or no attention. because im so isolated and no no one.

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ok, so the trick is to hop on one leg about fifty times, and then hide in the closet and try not to giggle. next, you have to call someone you don't know and see how long you can get them to stay on the phone with you...

LMAO!!! caring is like a disease sometimes.... you have it even when you really don't want it.
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ok, so the trick is to hop on one leg about fifty times, and then hide in the closet and try not to giggle. next, you have to call someone you don't know and see how long you can get them to stay on the phone with you...

LMAO!!! caring is like a disease sometimes.... you have it even when you really don't want it.
very cool dan!
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Caring is a gift, a gift you can share with someone.

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I don't know how?

...truth is there is no "technique"

is there one?....NOPE!...

it's just a damn instinct and a really damn annoying one to...

anyone ill with this crazy stuff would understand ...!!

how it comes and goes and not just gentle like brutal more like it!

to fall in a heap...collapse give up be a pathetic singular human mess!

...and then go manic upbeat as if??

nuthin' happened!....

RIGHT!??

but I sure feel damaged and this has gone on for years

and I still care
I think as you're exposed more and more to something, you get used to it even if you once really deeply cared, you can become numb. I don't know what''s worse... Constant caring or being numb.
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