[Mental reward]

This guy seemed incredibly into me. We had sex. Really awesome sex..Then stuff followed. Which has lead me to here. wtf type ****. Honestly met him on tinder. He acted obsessed..hadn't thought too much about him until today when he texted me. Asked for a pic of me to motivate his school which he is N architecture major. He is 25 I am 31. I look much younger. Anyhow-- he wanted me to send him a pic Bc he hadn't slept in days and said he needed motivation..I sent him pics if me that were just me no naked type stuff..he then didn't text me back and hasn't.. I am wondering why he responded in this fashion when I have been so super chill. Wtf? He seems totally intimated? I'm not sure what to think? I can give more detAils.. xxoo

[Mental reward]

I mention it because this kind of stuff is a massive trigger

[glok]

Hello, Mental reward. His behavior raises red flags. Is he really someone you want to have a relationship with?

[pawn78]

unfortunately great sex with a sexy guy does not = good relationship.

Probably best to move on, it sounds like he may have intimacy issues, or maybe just using you. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know him, but if he is a trigger for you, then LET HIM GO!

[Mental reward]

Originally Posted by glok

Hello, Mental reward. His behavior raises red flags. Is he really someone you want to have a relationship with?

Not particularly..i guess I was thinking I could possibly, because he is so different from a lot of the men I usually end up with.. But the. Upon thinking, he is kind if the exact man I end up with.. Ugh,. Im unsure how to handle it. I guess that's why. He made? Makes me feel like I'm the only girl who could make his head spin. I choose to say yes..I guess it's my fault kind of.. Though he acts so into me., so wow. I guess for some reason, yes, I do want some sort of relationship

[Mental reward]

Originally Posted by pawn78

unfortunately great sex with a sexy guy does not = good relationship.

Probably best to move on, it sounds like he may have intimacy issues, or maybe just using you. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know him, but if he is a trigger for you, then LET HIM GO!

You're so right, thank you..I guess it's just, honestly, yes he's sexy. Honestly I think I may be upset Bc i just want to ***** him, :/. But I really just wish he wouldn't act like I'm the only girl in the world that could make him wow his pants. It puts me in a role that I am not.. Ugh

[pawn78]

I love sex as much as the next guy, actually MUCH MORE than the average guy (bipolar sex maniac).

I have had sex with a sexy stranger, just for fun. But luckily neither of us tried to make it into a relationship, it was just a one-nighter, and we both knew it going into it.

I personally distinguish between someone I am horny for because they attract me in some way, and someone who I want to live with or be in an intimate personal relationship with. Ideally, you will eventually find someone that fulfills both sides (lust and intimacy).

[Mental reward]

Originally Posted by pawn78

I love sex as much as the next guy, actually MUCH MORE than the average guy (bipolar sex maniac).

I have had sex with a sexy stranger, just for fun. But luckily neither of us tried to make it into a relationship, it was just a one-nighter, and we both knew it going into it.

I personally distinguish between someone I am horny for because they attract me in some way, and someone who I want to live with or be in an intimate personal relationship with. Ideally, you will eventually find someone that fulfills both sides (lust and intimacy).

Hey, Thankyou
I suppose it's more like, input it as more if hot steamy ****, and had no notion of anything else..Bc well I wasn't sure if i would want anything else. Until he started messaging me. I am a hard and soft girl at the same time and I felt taken advantage of. Which **** me for anyway. But really?? Don't act as though you're enamored and not play the part