[BlueInanna]

Talking with bankruptcy lawyers tomorrow. I'm scared, discouraged. My sister I work with bad episode last night abusive yelling and violent in front of my 11 yr old and her 2 small children. The kids were all scared, crying traumatized. I think I'm ending my business and my relationship with her. She told her kids to not speak to me and that they'll never have a relationship with me. She was off her rocker. Very scary. I stayed in bed all day... Going to run out of my Klons early... May e I will tell pdoc I've taken extra and I want more or something stronger to get me through this time. My irritability is through the roof and I want to hurt people, like anyone, people I don't know, other drivers. I'm not feeling very stable right now

[Travelinglady]

Sorry you're having such a rough time. It sounds like for the best that you and sis part ways, at least for now. I hope the bankruptcy meeting goes well. Hang in here! I agree that it sounds like you need some stronger meds to tide you through.

[Victoria'smom]

I would call pdoc tomorrow morning. look here for legal aid . I may not be helpful right now but I'm here

[~Christina]

Blue hun , You have been in Battle mode for a long time, what will happen is going to happen.. I'm certain that what will happen is what you need right now. Do what you need to protect your and your children.

Most of all be kind to you! Talk to your Pdoc about your meds and recent situation,, I would hope they will help you out

hugs and love always

your meeting will go fine, i know it.

((((hugs))))

You'll probably be more settled after you speak to an attorney, Blue. As for your sister's behavior, try not to worry about it. She's being immature, as you know, and
it is really best that you not share a business relationship with her. I'm sorry she
is trying to turn her children against you. That's just so wrong, in my viw.

Take care of yourself first now, please.

[Trippin2.0]

((((((Blue)))))) Sending you lots of love and hugs. Cant really post now as I'm at work, but hope to check in with you soon

[BlueInanna]

Originally Posted by shattered sanity

your meeting will go fine, i know it.

((((hugs))))

Will go fine??? No things are not fine... But thanks for the hug.

[faerie_moon_x]

It probably is best to end the business relationship with your sister. This isn't the first time you've talked about how it's not working any more. Family and business often don't mix.

Don't give up hope on your sister as a sister. Maybe right now you need some space. But, maybe if you weren't connected by the business it will be easier to heal personal wounds, too. And remember the things she said like you won't have a relationship with her kids, that's all episode talk.

Right now just take care of you and your kids.

Sorry you're going through all this. I will be sending calming energy your way. and

[BlackPup]

sorry there is nothing I can say to help but I am thinking of you. Hope things improve.

[BlueInanna]

Thanks so much guys. Somehow combo of prayer and working my *** off, may have found a solution to save biz!! I figured out ways to move around reserves and found some errors on the financials, barely showing any loss on the books now!! CPA promised me bank pretty statements by the morning, we have 2 banks to present to in the morning. I avoided bankruptcy attorneys for today, we worked out terms with 2 vendors who were set to credit hold us today as well. Phew...

Sister and I made up. She gave me a letter for my son, apologizing for her behavior, that the things she said were not true, and that he's a wonderful boy she loves very much. After he read it tonight, I asked him if I could text her that he thanks her for the letter. He said yes and (in complete innocent sincerity) he is sorry that she has bipolar (!) I couldn't help but laugh, told him we'll just leave at thank you and that he loves her. I explained it's best not to mention her bipolar unless she were to directly bring it up to him.

Sister also wrote me email last night, she went to FB to unfriend me but wonders why we're not friends on there (I Unfriended her a few weeks ago) haha. But I'd written to her a week later apologizing and sent new friend request, proves she'd been remiss in reading my emails. So I thought she just was ignoring my friend requests and my apology. She kept seeing friend requests from me and ignored cuz she heard of scams imposters, and never knew I Unfriended her haha.

Anyway, there is still hope I may be able to save biz, house, support my mom and my kids. Should know more within a few days. I'm exhausted but hopeful.

Thank you very much for all your prayers and good vibes, they are working!

[Trippin2.0]

Oh Blue! I am so happy to hear that things have turned around and that there is hope, tangible hope. Glad to hear you and your sister made up too
Please keep us posted, I will continue to send positive, hopeful vibes your way

[BlueInanna]

I have so much bp in the family, I am lucky I can laugh about it tonight, crazy freakin life! I want to make so much money that I could come visit you someday! Maybe we could make a documentary where I start with Hammy cuz she's nearby, and proceed to pick up more bp friends until we end up in Greece, like the sisterhood of traveling pants lol, but adult and bp and real and we could wear tiaras Lol... . Maybe a movie producer would invest... Hehe

Oh... Vibeds? I will take them ! Add to the dictionary

[Trippin2.0]

Lmao I just fixed vibeds! that poor dictionary, DH has her work cut out for her

I like your idea for a doccie! That would be one awesome trip, in more ways than one

I have a tiara, I vote for travelling tiara instead of pants!

[Anika.]

Been thinking of you Blue , so glad to read the follow up...let it continue

[BlueInanna]

Perfect !! I think people would like to see it. We have stories to tell, and new words to teach! Can't wait for my turn with the tiara!

[Victoria'smom]

The tiara has to be very sparkly though. I'm glad things are looking better. Bp runs rammed in my family too. Until I got to college I thought everyone was like us.

[faerie_moon_x]

I'm so glad things worked out! I had a feeling it would be okay. Bipolar arguments are explosive and dramatic but in my experience they cool down just as fast as they start.

I like the tiara idea. We should all wear tiaras more often. A documentary sounds like a great idea.