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Old Mar 23, 2013, 08:19 PM
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Why do I get angry when I look at other people's facebook photos with all their beautiful families out doing activities on beautiful sunny days with smiles and laughter and joy? I hate that I feel so jaded. Are some people really this happy? Do some people experience so much pure joy in life? I know there can be a lot going on behind the bright smiles of the photo, but I hate that it angers me that other people are out there having fun in life and not going through any type of mental illness. I hate that I feel this way. Can anyone relate?

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Old Mar 23, 2013, 08:23 PM
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Pictures can be decieving. Sometimes someone who looks happy, may not be as happy as they look. I am good at hiding behind a smile. I have a lot of pictures on my facebook of me smiling and looking like a very happy person.
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 08:45 PM
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FaceBook is a networking tool. It hasn't anything to do with reality--yours or anyone else's.
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 08:52 PM
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But there ARE some people out there with happy lives.

Pisses me off that I'm not one of them.
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 08:53 PM
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I totally relate and feel the same about photo Christmas cards. I need to dig deep to find love for ALL in my heart and soul.
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 09:29 PM
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But there ARE some people out there with happy lives.

Pisses me off that I'm not one of them.
Yeah, me too. I just hate the fact that other people's happiness irritates me. I don't wish everyone to be depressed or anything but I can't help the way I feel.
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 10:43 PM
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I hate the photos and posts that show other people living the life that I thought I would have by now.

People with a loving spouse.

People with more than one child.

Happy families.

A nice house.

Kids accomplishing things in their lives. It doesn't have to be huge things, either. Just working toward a goal. I would be happy if my kid was actually working toward a goal instead of having dropped out of collage and wasting precious years of his life.
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 10:58 PM
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I hate the photos and posts that show other people living the life that I thought I would have by now.

People with a loving spouse.

People with more than one child.

Happy families.

A nice house.

Kids accomplishing things in their lives. It doesn't have to be huge things, either. Just working toward a goal. I would be happy if my kid was actually working toward a goal instead of having dropped out of collage and wasting precious years of his life.
Yeah I have a hard time with the happy loving spouse photos and all the vacation photos and activity photos of people having FUN. I do not remember the last time I actually had fun.
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