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Jul 15, 2013 at 08:52 PM
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So, I had a dream the other night about an ex boyfriend that figured prominently in my delusions in 2010. I haven't talked to him in like 11 years, but I finally found him on the Internet today. I emailed him. STUPID!
I'm married with a son that I'm extremely devoted to. Why did I open Pandora's box? Now just the thought of talking to him makes me feel more (I am still trying to figure out the terms) hypomanic, I guess. Crap. |
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Jul 16, 2013 at 12:18 PM
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Was he your first love?
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Jul 16, 2013 at 03:39 PM
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Yeah,the one that got away...
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Jul 16, 2013 at 03:48 PM
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Maybe you should tell your husband about it. It is not clear whether the ex bf himself is the sole cause of the increase in hypomania, or, also, the situation you are creating by being clandestine with your husband exacerbates it. If you can tell the husband (most people would understand that the first bf - the one who got away - will always occupy a special place in your mind), you will eliminate the potentially exacerbating component of being clandestine, which might help.
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Jul 17, 2013 at 05:50 AM
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Thanks... It's just a symptom of a larger problem.
Plus, he hasn't emailed back yet and probably won't. Whew! |
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