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Sep 23, 2013, 07:12 PM
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Well... I know I'm not, that's for sure. However, my husband just told me that the neighbors surely think I'm one. I said no, you think I'm a *****. And that's my argument for today. My husband assumes they think I'm a ***** because every time he hung out with them, shortly I would ask him to come in. He also argues that whenever he was by their place, he would wave and I wouldn't wave back. He also says that is the reason that whenever we would go together, they never talked to me. I mean really? Who thinks I'm a *****, them or does he? Because for me, I feel he does. Obviously he doesn't see it... Btw the neighbor wife didn't talk to me after I continuously made efforts to engage in conversation, if I were a *****, F that but no, there I was making the effort, it wasn't until I made fun of myself that she had a conversation with me... So... I feel like sleeping upstairs and just not talking to him ever, and really be a *****.
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Sep 23, 2013, 08:10 PM
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I totally understand the want to show him just how much of a ***** you can be. In my opinion it really does seem like he's the one who thinks that, because all the examples he's siting have to do with how you make HIM look in front of them.
It's really not very nice! I hope you two can work this out.
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Sep 23, 2013, 08:22 PM
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Thanks Atomic! That is exactly my reasoning, I'm glad that you see it too. It hurts me because it makes me wonder... usually I can forget in a split second that I'm upset, because it doesn't matter to me that much. However this.. I just don't want to let it go, but I'm not sure what to expect either.
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Sep 23, 2013, 08:28 PM
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Sep 23, 2013, 08:36 PM
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We tried talking about it, but I want it to let him see why I thought it was him calling me a *****, but he couldn't see it. He just came with those excuses to say, those are the reasons he thinks makes the neighbors think I'm a *****. I even had to go to say, at the end of the day, you said I was a *****, they never said so. So his response was obviously that they wouldn't tell me to my face. Like he is sure they must think I'm a *****. I don't know if I'm ready to try to talk it over again. He thinks he is straight, he believes he didn't call me a *****... It's them...
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Sep 23, 2013, 08:37 PM
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It's what he thinks they think.. Cuz he is a psychic now and everything. Lol
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